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How do you handle caregivers in social gatherings?
As someone who can’t go out without help, I often deal with the following scenario:
I get an invitation from a friend. I ask if I can bring along my PCA and their immediate response is obviously “yes”. When we get there, however, things get awkward. The other guests feel they should involve my PCA in the conversation and, frankly, so do I. After all, she’s not an inanimate object, she’s another person at the table and we can’t just ignore her as if she doesn’t exist. On the other hand, my friends choose to hang out with me, not some random stranger with whom they may have nothing in common. Perhaps I’m just making a big fuss out of it due to my own insecurities, but it doesn’t feel right to subject my friends or my PCA to this. Especially my friends because for my PCA I guess it’s part of the job…
How do you deal with situations like this? Any tips you can share?
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