jojo-jonsson
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I do that too. All the time. Keep putting my own needs away for the sake of being a part of things.
I’ve noticed that when I don’t people don’t really wanna hang out with me. For what reason I don’t know. Probably because everything will be a little more complicated and difficult.
And I also think that it’s a bad thing cos as I’m not the real me they don’t get it. Hard part is to overcome it. How to bridge the gap. -
I think choosing the moments to let people in. Then maybe through a blog or insta or Yt like you to show more and more, as long as it feels comfortable of course.
Also to speak about why we don’t share maybe. -
I used to be that way when I was younger and healthier than I am today(47). I usually didn’t have any helpers so if I needed help with anything I asked someone close by. Good thing.
Nowadays the help I usually need is too advanced or special to let just anyone help and I have speech problems. It’s all about what and where. If it’s an emergency sure but if it can wait I will. I put my energy into the fun parts and save the mess for later 😉. Not sure yet if it’s good or bad. -
Me too…