@thembingcai
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai started the topic I Don't Have Exes (a personal essay) in the forum SMA and Dating/Relationships 9 months, 1 week ago
My experience of disability has always been characterised by comparison. I’m the only disabled person in my family. I was one of the very few visibly disabled people in high school, university, and later in my career as a journalist. How I was disciplined at home, which school activities I participated in, my longevity in employment and now, r…[Read more]
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai changed their profile picture 9 months, 1 week ago
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai's profile was updated 9 months, 1 week ago
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai started the topic Disclosing SMA to a boyfriend as a late teen in the forum SMA and Dating/Relationships 2 years, 2 months ago
I used to portray dating as a disabled person as copacetic. Chilled. Something not out of the ordinary – and even when before I was a wheelchair-user, this didn’t ring true in many respects. At the time, sure accessing places where young people connect and are likely to meet partners, was easier but it was just a different burden. Not app…[Read more]
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai's profile was updated 2 years, 2 months ago
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai changed their profile picture 2 years, 2 months ago
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai changed their profile picture 2 years, 11 months ago
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Hi Michael, thank you so much x
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago
Hey Kevin,
I’m new and I’m not sure how to upload a profile picture. Please help. Thank you x
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Hey! If you go to your profile there should be a tab there that says change profile pic. You can also click on the blank picture you have now, and there should be an option to change it. Let me know if neither of those work.
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai replied to the topic Going on a first date when you have SMA in the forum SMA and Dating/Relationships 2 years, 11 months ago
Hi everyone 🙂
I have type 3 and had similar experiences to Brynne when I was in university but now I’ve lost my ability to walk and am permanently in a manual wheelchair.
I haven’t been on a date in two years because it’s been difficult transitioning from being able to do some things to now needing a personal assistant for the bathroom in parti…[Read more]
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Thembelihle Lily Ngcai became a registered member 2 years, 11 months ago
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Hello, Thembelihle, welcome to the SMA forum. Please look around and join in on the active conversations. Please let us know if you have any questions. We’re here to help you in any way we can. Have a wonderful day.
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Hi Michael, thank you so much x
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