31 Days of SMA: Let’s Work Together to Change Expectations
Day 26 of 31
This is Carissa Decelles’ (@rheelgirl) story:
Hello! My name is Carissa, and I am a 30-year-old, award-winning art director and graphic designer from eastern Connecticut. I also happen to have SMA type 2.
SMA has never been a focal point in my life — at least not an intentional one. Did it have me in and out of hospitals every three months until I was about 7? Yes. Does it make life substantially more challenging? Yes, of course. Does it limit what I am able to achieve? No, absolutely not.
I was raised with the expectation that I was going to grow up, go to school, get a job, be successful, and live independently, just like any “normal” person would. While I frequently questioned how I would accomplish any of this, I didn’t view the challenges through the lens that SMA was in my way. It was more that the world was not built for me and it needed to adapt so that I could have a fair shot at building the life I wanted.
Fast forward to today. I have an amazing job, with my work recognized statewide and nationally. I live alone in my own apartment (unless you count plants, in which case, I live with a family of 20+), and I drive (speed is probably more accurate) my own specially modified vehicle, which is the coolest thing!
I am so thankful for each of these amazing gifts, and for the opportunities I’ve had to get me where I am now — no matter how much of a battle it was (and continues to be). The unfortunate thing is that I am viewed as one of the rare ones. I am abnormal in both the able-bodied and disabled communities because I have a severe physical disability, yet live what most would consider a normal life.
No one quite knows what to do with me. Yes, it’s amazing to get so far in a system literally designed to keep us from succeeding. But it’s also insulting that no one expects us to succeed.
Let’s work together to change this. It will be fun, I promise.
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