Spreading a message of hope for SMA Awareness Month
Faith, personality, and spirit are the attributes that allow this columnist to thrive
To highlight SMA Awareness Month this August, I could go on and on describing the physical aspects of my life that occur every day. For example, I could talk about the aggressive respiratory care my mom and my nurses provide me to keep my lungs clear. Or I could describe how my nurses use a lift anchored to the ceiling to transfer me in and out of my bed, wheelchair, and shower chair.
All of this, and much more, is critical to keeping me alive. Yet, it doesn’t describe who I am inside, specifically, my faith, personality, and spirit. I’d like to discuss these traits to highlight the positive lives that people with SMA can have.
As a person with SMA, I am a dreamer with faith. I believe that through faith, whatever I imagine can become a reality. It might not happen today or tomorrow, but with enough research, planning, and sometimes fundraising, anything is possible.
Planning a trip
One of my goals is to travel across the country. I have a wheelchair-accessible van, but I’ve learned that traveling long hours wears out my body. It’s also tiring for my mom and the nurses who accompany me.
I need them to stay energized during trips, which allows all of us to enjoy our vacations. If my nurses have a bad experience because they’re exhausted while traveling, they might not want to go with me again.
So far, flying has been out of the question. My wheelchair is extremely complicated, and I’ve heard too many horror stories of airline employees breaking power wheelchairs while putting them in storage.
I dreamed of an easier way to travel, and for the past year, I’ve been doing a lot of research to find a solution. Again, research and planning make goals and dreams possible.
One idea I considered was traveling by train. It might take longer, but at least you can stretch out. Trains also have fold-out beds that would allow me to rest.
While I was fantasizing about traveling by train, something even better appeared as a possibility. I learned that Delta Air Lines has partnered with the U.K.-based consortium Air4All to create airline seats that people can fold up and inward to accommodate a wheelchair restraint.
Amazingly, people would be able to stay in their own wheelchairs during flights. Talk about making my heart fill with hope and excitement while soaring through the clouds! Being able to travel across multiple states without exhausting all of us could soon become a reality.
While the design is still a prototype and no one knows when it will become commercially available, some things are worth waiting for.
Every day brings more hope
Hope may take a while to come to fruition, but it’s still hope. In the meantime, my faith allows me to believe that each new day can be better than the last.
People sometimes mention that I smile a lot. A big reason for this is my belief that good things can happen at any time. Also, my hope inspires hope in others. My mom says my smile brings her comfort. Even the director of my nursing agency said that when she first saw me smile, it filled her with joy and devotion.
Thus, for me, SMA Awareness Month means letting the world know about all the hope and joy you can have with SMA. When I was born in the early 1980s, I was given a life expectancy of just two years. Lifesaving medical care, combined with faith, hope, and joy, has gotten me to the age of 42. I’ve lived 40 years beyond my initial life expectancy!
Now that we have disease-modifying therapies to treat SMA, the disease’s prognosis has improved. We also have assistive technology to help those of us with SMA be more independent.
Let’s soar with excitement from being aware of all the hope you can have with SMA!
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Joanne Martin
Ari, you do have a great smile!!! Thanks for keeping us posted on the possibility of flying while seated in your own wheelchair. That is something that would help so many people!
susie crute
Hi Ari, That’s amazing! 40 years ago, and you were 2 years old! And I’ve known you 20 years! Think how many things have changed, how many more things will change! I saw your mom this morning and she was sharing about technology as it relates to you! I need help with hearing, especially on my left side, so I didn’t hear the details! But I rejoiced inside! One more ‘piece’ for Ari! It definitely does need faith and a disciplined mind to press on in Hope!. I think that’s one of the ways you encourage me the most: focus my mind on His truth, bring back to my mind what I memorized years ago, and ‘keep moving on to the next right thing'! You do have a beautiful smile! :) Love, Susie
Kelli Ash
Hi Ari! I took care of you when you lived in Tulsa, Ok. Your mom; Stephanie and dad Jack. I remember them. I do remember your sister Sheva. I have always wondered about your future after you moved from Oklahoma. Is your dad still a preacher? What is your mom doing? Is she writing books? Is your grandfather living in Israel? I loved you and your family and it left a lasting memory in my life.