SMA affects the entire family. Sometimes it’s obvious, and sometimes it’s not. Either way, each involved individual must navigate the disease, alongside its implications, and figure out a way to cope.
Child or adult, male or female, parent or sibling; the road traveled with SMA carries hardships, frustrations, and anxiety. It brings with it a sense of hopelessness sitting right next to hope itself. It brings with it a test of resilience unmatched by other life events. It brings with it a black cloud that hangs there, sometimes right over your head, and other times, in the distant background. A diagnosis of SMA carries a lifetime of day-to-day battles. Mental and physical challenges surround the everyday life.
With these challenges comes the need to prioritize. The need to step back and look at the big picture while keeping an eye on the details. The need to make the best out of a bad situation. Some call it “strength” — it’s really survival. You have a choice: On one hand, you have SMA taking over your life, and on the other, you have yourself taking over SMA. Somewhere in between is where one finds themselves. “In-between” is where the decisions lie, the doubt creeps in, and the attitude that we can beat this springs forth. Everybody reacts differently. Everybody copes in their own way. Everybody takes what is handed to them and sorts through the complexities.
I will dedicate the next six weeks’ worth of columns to exploring how different people who surround Ella tackle the diagnosis of her SMA. We’ll explore understandings, aspirations, disappointments, and deep-seated thoughts of what it means to care for someone with SMA, be a part of a family who has an SMA diagnosis, and how coping mechanisms can be similar and very different at the same time.
I will take you into Ella’s world of relationships. From grandparents to parents, from siblings to Ella herself, you’ll gain a better understanding of how each individual is affected by SMA and what they do about it. Individual interviews will demonstrate the complexity of the human psyche, the physical nature of SMA, and the different ways in which people rise to the occasion of dealing with the diagnosis.
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