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Trying to move ahead
I get it, I see it, and I am living it. I know my fiancĂ© is working hard; he has worked hard to get to where he is. I see Drew for who he is and not what he is not. He is a great lawyer, a great lawyer: very understanding and very upfront and honest with his clients. But I see that hiring managers don’t see him move up. I feel like all they see is the wheelchair or me (the caregiver). They don’t see how hard he has worked to get where he is. how he has to support his family since I am with him the majority of the day because we can not afford a caregiver. How, instead of working two jobs, we can live comfortably with this new job. No one is giving him a chance. The anxiety, the fear, the overthinking. I feel for him emotionally. It is just not fair. We want to plan a wedding that we pay for, get out of debt, save as much as we can, and go out as a family. But it is hard. We have medical bills that we have pushed aside, the medical bills that are not covered by medical insurance. We have credit card debt that we maxed out because he was sick and hospitalized. We are now trying to catch up. I want to help besides just being his caregiver. Aside from taking care of the house, our family, Drew. We just want to move ahead without worrying so much. How? Why? When? I don’t want Drew to be burnt out. I don’t want him to stress. Because Drew is a very hard worker, fiancĂ©, and stepdad regardless of his disability. His disability does not define him. Sorry if I am rambling. I just wanted to get this off my chest.
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