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Responding to Microagressions
Maybe you guys can give me some pointers. I never know how to respond to microagressions, or backhanded compliments, in everyday conversations. Statements like “must be nice, I wish I could sit all day” or the classic “you’re so lucky you can eat anything you want and not gain weight” are just some examples.
I don’t believe there is ever any malintent coming from these people. Nevertheless, sometimes these words can be harmful. If only people knew how lucky they are to get up and move around, have a body that doesn’t reject food, etc etc. Has this ever happened to you before? Usually I’ll shrug it off but I feel like they’re good opportunities for teaching moments. I just never know how to go about it. What do you think?
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